Do you have this urge that you would love to feel more feminine, than the normal, everyday male you?
Do you desire to be pretty, or dare I say it even feel femininely beautiful, like you have never experienced before?
If, so, today you shall learn how to change male to female, without the use of hormones.
As you work through each step you will become more and more feminine looking but please remember women have years and years of practice and upbringing, working on their beauty routine which is not easy, so only plenty of practice will get you to where you would like be and to look as lady-like as you possibly can.
Remove your male body hair
Remove all my male body hair?! That’s a bit extreme isn’t it?
Well, hear me out.
Women, in general, like to keep their body pretty much hairless. Apart from the hair on their head and how they ladyscape their pubic hair then everything else on their body is kept as soft and smooth as they possibly can and that means hair removal.
As a hairy male, some hairier than others, this may be quite a daunting task to start off with.
To start you off and this should go without saying, but shave any stubble from your face, Have yourself a real close shave as you possibly can.
Chest hair? Get rid! Again, shave it off, nice ‘n’ smooth. Just be careful with that razor around your nipple area.
While you are there, shave you armpits. How does that feel to you? Feeling a little more womanly now?
Most men have hairy legs. Again, you can shave them, wax them, use a hair epilator (not recommended to start with) or laser them. After a lot of trial and error, I prefer to shave my legs and now I just love the feeling of my legs being silky smooth all of the time.
Down below, in the pubic area, manscape your bits and get it nice and smooth or at least as neat and trimmed as possible. Just take care with that razor down there or you could be showing us all how to change male to female permanently!
The rest of your body, such as arms, hands and stomach, use clippers to reduce the amount of hair on these body parts.
My back has a little bit of body hair on it, so I just shave this off but I know some males can have backs like a mountain gorilla. If this you, King Kong, then you may want to use clippers first to reduce the amount of hair, then shave or if you have a helpful and willing partner to wax your back for you, ask them. Good luck!
Mmmm, your body is now all silky and smooth. How does that feel? Feel good?
Wear female body shaping underwear 
Now you have your body feeling so smooth, wearing soft, silky or lace underwear now feels amazing against your smooth skin. While I love the feeling of wearing a lace basque and teeny pair of thongs and it does look so good too but the reality is if I want to dress myself and be walking about dressed en femme, I prefer to wear some satin big girl pants, as these help keep my bits downstairs in check.
Now, I’m sure like myself you just love the curves on the female body. The curve of the female back, the roundness of womens hips and butt. The beautiful shape of breasts and cleavage is just so perfect. Unfortunately as a male crossdresser, most of us lack these sensual curves on our body.
I like to wear hip and butt pads, which are basically a pair of knickers with pads fitted into pockets to create curves on your hips and butt. Some are better and more natural looking than others, so it may take a bit of trial and error to get pads you are happy with.
To add shape to your chest, I like to use breast forms. These are silicone made breasts and come in all shapes, sizes and colours to suit your body style. I have written a full article on breast forms and breast plates here if you want further info on creating the perfect boobs for yourself.
These breast forms can be placed inside the cups of a well fitted bra but I prefer to buy pocketed bras where I place the breast forms inside the pockets of the bra cup and this holds your breast forms perfectly in place.
To complete your underwear look, try on some stockings. I prefer hold-ups when fully dressed but many crossdressers do like the full stockings and suspenders together, feeling the suspenders against your leg as you walk does feel amazing. For me, just the feel of wearing smooth nylon stockings is just so lush in itself.
Have a look in a full body mirror if you can. How do you look? Those curves look fabulous, I’m sure!
Style yourself in beautiful feminine clothing
While I just love the whole process of turning myself from a boring, dull bloke to an elegant, soft, beautiful feminine me, (I might not look beautiful but I certainly feel it) buying female clothes for myself is deffo one of my favourite things to do.
Have a think about you would like to present yourself as a crossdresser. As I started out crossdressing, I thought I was buying elegant dresses but most looked cheap and slutty. A lot of crossdressers fall into this category when they start out and can look more like hookers dressed for the street than looking glamorous or elegant.
The slutty look or the sissy look might be what you are trying to achieve or you may want to try to look as womanly as possible and buying the right style of clothing for your age and build will only help you achieve this look.
I do love wearing mini’s but as I’m getting older the skirts and dresses get that little bit longer. Don’t get me wrong, you can still look a million dollars in gorgeous knee-length skirt or midi length dress.
Get yourself online and select yourself an outfit, a dress, a skirt and blouse, anything that appeals to you and think would suit your body shape.
Outfit selected, now find a pair of heels to match your outfit. Be careful with the shoe sizes as ladies shoes are not made as wide as you are accustomed to when wearing male footwear. You may have to go with a size above your usual foot size. Again, be careful with the heel height, if you have never worn high heels before, this can take some time to get used to so don’t go to high.
Apply make-up to feminise your looks
Make-up can completely change the way you look, making you more feminine than you ever thought possible. But I have to say, only if it is applied properly. Get your make-up wrong and it can ruin your whole appearance. Believe me, I’ve had bad make-up days! Think more Herman Monster when trying to be Heidi Klum.
I won’t give a full make-up tutorial here, that will be for another day, but you do need to practice, practice, practice and blend, blend, blend!
Have a gorgeous hair day, everyday
To finish off your male to female looks, unless you have long flowing locks, then a female wig is a must have in a crossdressers wardrobe. If you are just starting out in the male to female process, then by all means try some cheaper synthetic wigs available online. Most of these cheaper wigs don’t look anywhere near as natural but they will help you get to know what style, length and colour of hair is going to suit you best.
Only, when you have found a style you are happy with then if you are happy to, you can fork out the extra cash to invest in a more natural looking wig made from real hair. You will be amazed and completely notice the difference with a high quality wig and they can look so real, with plenty of compliments coming your way.
Move like a lady
If you have put all the above together and you now look at yourself in the mirror, I am sure you will be feeling on cloud nine at how womanly you look and feel.
You may look like a lady, gorgeous and feminine but the one thing that can ruin your whole appearance is by the way you move and the way you hold yourself.
Watch women on how they hold themselves, how they sit, stand and walk. Watch how women run their hand through their hair or how they carry their handbag.
A womens step is so much shorter than a male, try not to point your toes outward, keep your knees close together, hips swinging slightly.
Walking in heels takes some practice. Learn how to walk up and down stairs in high heels. 
When sitting, knees and feet together, place your hands gently on your lap.
Put this all together, with practice and be gentle in all your movements and hopefully you will be able to successfully carry off how to change male to female with no problems at all.